Good age for getting married?

[marina flavia]

I want to ask one question to every one what is the good age for getting married?

[Jabsfreelanceworld]

Never. LOL There's really no measure really. I know a friend who was married at 20. I was shocked because at the time I was 25 and still not feeling ready. However, she seemed more mature for her age so maybe it was really okay for her. I think being honest with yourself and knowing you are ready is what is most important, not age.

However, I must admit...sometimes...

I wish I would have been married by the time I was 30. It's not too old to have children and old enough to have felt like I did all I could do while single. Then again, I wasn't really sure my ex fiance was the one and I discovered more about myself that I never knew before. As "old" as I was, I didn't know enough about myself yet.

Now, I'm in a live-in relationship w/my bf not yet engaged. I'm on this board mainly because I think it helps heal my memories of my broken engagement and helps me look forward to the possibility of meeting the one even at my age. (I'm almost 38 now.)

[engaged11]

I'm in my mid 20s and know I've met the one so I don't want to wait.

[marina flavia]

Oh,engaged11 i think you really want to do this and i think 20 is not good age for getting married.You need to wait for some years....

[engaged11]

I agree with Jabs. I mean, I'm glad I didn't get married at 20 because I was still in college. However, I think everyone is different. I know some exceptional people who actually have it all together and have had the chance to do things they wanted to do by that age.

[Jabsfreelanceworld]

This is embarrassing admitting how old I am. I wanted to try to get married by the time I was 35. However, when the chance came to get back with my ex fiance I didn't know what I wanted anymore. I figured I would take time to get to know myself first. There was just way too much hurt for me to ever trust he would stay with me this time.

[passionoverdrive]

I think age shouldn't matter, no matter how young or old. It is more about how you feel inside towards that person and whether or not you know it's the one and you can trust that individual. Search your heart and you will know when you are ready.

[nemato]

My friend got married as soon as she turned 18. I thought that was a little bit too soon.

I don't think getting married is something you should rush and if you know you are ready, then you probably are.

[Armageddon]

Age is just a number, it shouldn't matter too much. Only get married when you feel you're ready because it's the most important time of your life.

[alexa]

Every body have differently opinion and according to me the good age for getting married is between 19-23 for girls and between 24-27 for boys.

[enchantedbride2b]

I think readiness is more of a matter than age. I think each person should search within their hearts and decide for themselves if they have done all they think they would want to do as a single person. When you feel in your heart you are ready to settle down then it's time.

[ElizabethR]

I think age shouldn't matter, no matter how young or old. It is more about how you feel inside towards that person and whether or not you know it's the one and you can trust that individual. Search your heart and you will know when you are ready.

You are absolutely right!

My mother got married when she was 18, ma sister got married when she was 28. Both have happy marriage so it is not about years. You have to think wether you are ready and grown up enough to do it.
Also, be sure he/she is the right person! No rush.

[enchantedbride2b]

I think age shouldn't matter, no matter how young or old. It is more about how you feel inside towards that person and whether or not you know it's the one and you can trust that individual. Search your heart and you will know when you are ready.

You are absolutely right!

My mother got married when she was 18, ma sister got married when she was 28. Both have happy marriage so it is not about years. You have to think wether you are ready and grown up enough to do it.
Also, be sure he/she is the right person! No rush.

I couldn't agree more. It's more about destiny than it is about age.

[AshBxo]

I don't see there being a certain age that decides upon getting married. I feel that once you each have your life in order financially and are ready to take the step forward together, than that is the right time. Whether this is 19, 21,23, or 25 years old, it just depends on the person.